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Long before I was a host on Sirius/XM radio I was a budding dildo whisperer. All of my teenage nephews knew that when they were ready to become sexually active to call me and I would send them a discreet "care package" filled with everything they would need to practice safe sex. They got lube packets, safe sex pamphlets and of course tons of condoms. I was the cool aunt that never told their parents but always made sure that they were playing safe.
Years after I sent my nephew Raif his first care package we were talking on the phone. No longer an awkward teenager but rather a young man in his early twenties he asked me if I had any good porn laying around the office. Of course I did because I always have an abundance of straight porn as I have little need for it. I grabbed a couple of good DVD's and threw them in a box. Then I spotted some containers of Boy Butter and thought he could probably use a little lube too. So into the box it went. I shipped the box off and didn't think anything of it. That is until the next time he and I spoke on the phone. During the course of the conversation he raved about the lube that I had sent him. At the time I couldn't even remember what brand I had sent him so I made him explain the package to me. He laughed a little and said, "well, it looks like a tub of butter". Ahh yes, Boy Butter. He went on to say that his jacking off had never felt better. Sure it was a little TMI but to be honest I was interested in his honest opinion on this brand of lube and he was more than willing rave on about it. He then asked if I would send him more because even though I had sent him a pretty good sized tub he had already used it all up. In less than 3 weeks I might add! That was all I needed to know that Eyal Feldman (the inventor of Boy Butter) had come up with a winner!
Now let's talk about Boy Butter!
Boy Butter comes with the yellow label and was the first lube in the Boy Butter Line up. Boy Butter is an oil-based lubricant that is made up from two very gentle ingredients: coconut oil and organic silicone. These ingredients are then homogenized just like real butter and the end result is a long lasting creamy lubricant. This lube is hypoallergenic and is safe on all toys. However, there is one VERY IMPORTANT thing I must tell you about. Because this lube is oil-based it is not compatible with any latex safer sex supplies like latex condoms. So this lube is best used for solo play or sex with a trusted partner. Currently, this is the only version of Boy Butter that we are carrying in my online store and it can be found in both of the containers pictured above under the "Bath, Body and Wellness" section of the store.
Active Ingredients: Coconut Oil and organic Silicone
Applications: Masturbation, Sex Toy Play, Anal Sex
Warnings: Do not use with Latex Condoms, NOT latex compatible.
Accessories: Your hand, Male Strokers/ Masturbation Sleeves, Sex toys
Rating: *** 3 out of 5 stars
You'll Never Know It Isn't Boy Butter (H2O Version)
Eyal Feldman understands the importance of safer sex practices which is why he came out with a water based version of his Boy Butter lube. This one appropriately called, "You'll Never Know It Isn't Boy Butter" is very similar to the original formula with a few small ingredient changes. This lube starts out as a water based gel lube that has Vitamin E and Shea butter added to it. The end result is a creamy lube that is safe for men or women and is latex compatible. This lube goes on clear and will last longer then most water based lubes. This means less time re-applying and more time enjoying yourself. It carries the same non-staining and easy clean up attributes as the Original Boy Butter but with the added bonus of safe sex compatibility.
Active Ingredients: Water based Gel lubricant, Vitamin E and Shea Butter
Applications: Use During Sex, Masturbation, Sex Toy Play, Anal Sex, Safe for Men or Women
Accessories: Your hand, Male Strokers/ Masturbation Sleeves, Sex toys
Rating: **** 4 out of 5 stars
There are additional products from Boy Butter but I will save those for another day. It is worth taking a few minutes to head over to the Boy Butter site though and checking the entire line out.
If you have a sex or sex toy question that you want answered, email the Dildo Whisperer at firstname.lastname@example.org. Or if you have a specific toy from my online store that you want the Dildo Whisperer to review let me know.
Monday, December 14, 2009
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Oh, butt sex. So often joked about, talked about, and written about, yet so few seem to know how to do it in a way that satisfies all parties involved.
Anal isn't always easy, but when it's done right it is oh…so…right. For everyone -- men, women, gay, straight, whatever.
First of all, I suggest some mood creation. You can't just stick it in someone's ass without softening 'em up first.
John Legend's Once Again album is good. Also, red wine is good. I hear doing coke is good too, especially since it makes you take monstrous shits, but would NOT suggest that due to, you know, legal and health issues.
A great lube option is Boy Butter, which my friend swears by. "It's super creamy but not greasy," is her testimony. "It's really thick and silky. You only need a little bit and it doesn't dry up.” The thing about Boy Butter (unless it’s their “Boy Butter H20” line) is that it’s oil-based, so you can't use it with condoms. Bareback only, my friend. (Or with toys.)
For many first-timers, missionary position is the way to go. It puts the receiver in a position that is more relaxed (lying down and less vulnerable) and relaxation is KEY. You can try receiver-on-top, though I've never been able to swing it. If you do decide to try doggy, have the giver sit back on his (or her, with a strap-on) heels while the receiver lowers back onto the D, controlling the velocity and depth of the penetration.
If the receiver is a woman, try using a vibrator on her clit! If you don’t have a vibe, have her rub her clit, or you rub it for her. If you’re doing it doggy style, a friendly reach-around is always a fantastic addition. This has always helped me to enjoy anal, which has not always been fun. Don’t expect great things immediately. For most people, it’s a commitment, a process. But I think it’s worth it.
Mood, Lube, Preparation, and Safety! Butt sex for all!
Tuesday, November 10, 2009
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Wednesday, October 21, 2009
Pictures of Eyal Feldman owner of Boy Butter Lubes (top)
and the Sirius OutQ Radio Team Derek and Romaine (btm)
Monday, October 19, 2009
Thursday, October 15, 2009
Monday, October 12, 2009
Probably the best and most efficient way to have an orgasm quickly is with masturbation. If you get right down to it, this is the case because with solo sex you are in complete control of your body, movements, speed, and emotions. Masturbation is the best and most fundamental way to explore your body and discover parts of your sexuality that you never knew about; it is a sexual activity that everyone should try at least once. Boy butter, Gun Oil and KY lube are great accessories to any masturbation session and do not need to be used sparingly. Boy Butter is cool because it is water soluble, super slick, and smooth and creamy. Boy Butter is a blend of vegetable oils and silicone which makes it a perfect consistency to stroke your erect penis. Gun oil is a lubricant that is really made for a man and it is also compatible with latex condoms.
It comes from a time when men were away at war and actually had to use real gun oil to masturbate. KY Jelly is a water based and water soluble personal lubricant so it is also very compatible with the latex that are in condoms. KY Jelly is one of the more widely known lubes, but Boy Butter and Gun Oil are quickly emerging as leading competitors in this niche market as well.
Boy Butter, Gun Oil and KY Jelly are also great items to accompany any type of sexual activity, not just masturbation. Anal sex is one type that has made Boy Butter extremely popular because the anal and rectum areas are very sensitive parts of the body. If not prepared properly, the anus and rectum can tear easily and become very susceptible to infection. This is why it is imperative to use something like Boy Butter to lubricate the area before attempting intercourse. The best thing to do with your partner, or by yourself, is to decide what you are going to be using the personal lubricant for. Then it will be very easy to choose between Boy Butter, Gun Oil and KY Jelly for your personal needs.
Sunday, October 11, 2009
Official site of Paranormal Activity, the story of a young middle class couple who become increasingly disturbed by a possible demonic presence in their new home, especially when they sleep. Or try to. I saw this tonight and it freaked me out, scariest movie I have seen ever. The whole audience were beside themselves, especially at the end of the movie.
Wednesday, October 7, 2009
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Thursday, September 24, 2009
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Shana Tovah and Happy Jewish New Year! It is the Jewish Year 5770! Have a Sweet Year!
Eat Lots of Apples with Honey to signify a sweet new year ahead!
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Monday, August 3, 2009
I am doing my annual summer marathon swim for charity and I am asking for all of your help. Last summer you helped me raise $1100 for SAGE. This year I’m participating in a 5k/3.3 mile open water swim race from Long Island to Fire Island on Saturday, Aug. 22.
All the money we raise with the event will go to a local charity called Stonewall Community Foundation, which is like a United Way-esque foundation that gives to needy gay-related charities in NYC (a GREAT organization for whom I have the utmost respect). I'm trying to raise $1,500, and I will appreciate ANY form of contribution you may be able to afford, no matter how small, but if you can at least send $25 or more that will be doing a mitzvah, which is a blessing plus and it is tax deductible.
You can donate on our Facebook 'Cause' page by following the link below which offers an extremely easy and secure payment via credit card. I will be notified of any contributions made.
You can also send checks payable to Stonewall Community Foundation, and mail checks to:
Eyal Feldman, 261 West 22nd # 28, NY NY 10011.
Thank you for your continuing support in helping improve the world.
Eyal Feldman, Marathon Swimmer Extraordinaire